A
Woman’s Last Word
I
Let’s contend no
more, Love,
Strive nor weep;
All be as
before, Love,
-Only Sleep!
II
What so wild as
words are?
I and thou
In debate, as
birds are,
Hawk on bough!
III
See the creature
stalking
While we speak!
Hush and hide
the talking,
Cheek on cheek!
IV
What so false as
truth is,
False to thee?
Where the
serpent’s tooth is
Shun the tree—
V
Where the apple
reddens
Never pry—
Lest we lose our
Edens,
Eve and I.
VI
Be a god and
hold me
With a charm!
Be a man and
fold me
With thine arm!
VII
Teach me, only
teach, Love!
As I ought
I will speak thy
speech, Love
Think thy
thought—
VIII
Meet, if thou
require it,
Both demands,
Laying flesh and
spirit
In thy hands.
IX
That shall be
to-morrow
Not to night:
I must bury
sorrow
Out of sight:
X
-Must a little
weep, Love,
(Foolish me!)
And so fall
asleep, Love,
Love
by thee.
I
chose Robert Browning’s Piece “A Woman’s Last Word” because this poem may seem
short, but there is a lot of meaning and emotion that shines through in this
poem. This poem also relates to a real life situation that any reader could see
happening in their everyday life. A woman and a man are arguing over something
that had previously happened, and the woman is trying to challenge him. The
poem takes place at the woman’s and man’s house and it seems like there is a lot
of tension throughout the poem. The speaker in this poem is very clear; it’s
the woman in this poem or also known as the wife. Just by the first stanza you
can tell that this is a woman speaking “Let’s contend no more, Love,/Strive nor
weep:/All be as before, Love,/-Only Sleep!) (1-4). The problem that is stated
in this poem is the conflict about what we sacrifice or give up in ourselves in
order to have love. Each stanza(s) has a different meaning, and I will explain
to you what Browning was trying to make the reader see throughout his poem.
When the poem beings, the wife is speaking, and the wife
states in the first three stanzas of the poem that she is mad at her husband
for something that happened previously. Throughout the poem the reader doesn’t
know what caused this argument to happen or even why the couple is arguing. It
seems like the couple bickers quite often because later in the poem, the wife
seems to be really frustrated with how much they fight/argue and how it’s
“ruining” their relationship. In stanza II Browning writes “In debate, as birds
are,/ Hawk on bough!” (7-8). Here, the reader sees the imagery of the hawk and
probably thinks about what they know about a hawk. A simple definition of a
hawk is a “bird of prey” (Miller). With the imagery of the hawk, the reader
sees that this is a threatening type of imagery. I saw it in a hunting/fighting
kind of way because this is where the tension of the argument arises. We still
don’t know what the couple is arguing about, but we can get a sense that she
just wants it to stop.
The next two stanzas (IV and V) talk about truth and
knowledge. “What so false as truth is,/False to thee?” (13-14). Then “Where the
apple reddens/Never pry-/Lest we lose our Edens,/Eve and I.” (17-20). Again,
the reader can see that the speaker is just getting frustrated with the
situation. The woman is trying to figure out what’s true and what’s not because
all she wants is to hear from him is the truth. The reader can also tell in
these stanzas that if the husband and wife don’t fix/solve their problems then
their relationship will decline. The woman would lose the sense of who she was
and their relationship won’t be the same as it used to be when they didn’t
argue. We see this in a lot of relationships today…Men and women have had a
great few months together, but after bickering and fighting about little stupid
things makes their feelings towards each other decrease including their
marriage to decrease as well.
“Be a god and hold me/With a charm!/Be a man and fold me/With
thine arm!” (21-24). When reading stanzas VI, VII, and VII the reader can see
that the speaker is just trying to forget about their argument and move on.
It’s not worth fighting if it’s going to ruin the relationship. The woman is
saying “well, fine then, don’t tell me the truth. Instead, man up and be my
husband. If I’m doing something that annoys you then please tell me and teach
me so that I can change, and so that we can get along.” We see the speaker
mention in stanza VII about how the husband should teach her to be better
“Teach me, only teach, Love!/As I ought/I will speak thy speech, Love,/Think
thy thought—“ (25-28). Again, this relates to real-life relationships because
everyone wants to know what they are doing wrong, because if you don’t know
nothing will ever get better. Relationships fall apart if there is no
connection and if the other person isn’t willing to change. This could be a
symbol of not caring about the relationship they are in…if they aren’t going to
change then why fight for the woman?
The last two stanzas of the poem (IX and X) are a little
different. As I was reading through the poem I didn’t see it ending the way it
does. “That shall be to-morrow/Not to night:/I must bury sorrow/Out of sight:”
(33-36). Here, the speaker makes the listener wait till morning. I definitely
thought the poem was going to end on a happy note with everything being resolved,
but no she wants to wait till morning because that’s when they’ll start fresh.
Arguing and bickering is tiring and if that’s happening a lot then I can only
imagine how tired the speaker is. As women, we get frustrated really easily and
just want to sleep on it and figure it out in the morning, but the speaker also
states that “but for now I’m going to have myself a good cry, goodnight.” The
last two lines in the poem “And so fall asleep, Love/Loved by thee.” (39-40).
Here we see that the speaker gets the last word hence the title “A Woman’s Last
Word”.
Even though the reader never finds out why the couple is
arguing the poem is still very powerful and very emotional. And like I stated
above a lot of things in this poem compare to real-life relationships today.
There is no such thing as a “perfect” relationship, just like there is no such
thing as a “perfect” person. It’s ok for couples to argue and bicker because
it’s a learning experience for both, and this only makes the heart stronger,
but if this is happening all the time then someone’s going to be questioning
the relationship. It’s just like the saying “each day is a new day.” Each day
is a new day, and that’s why the speaker just wants to sleep on it and get back
to it in the morning because you never know, but everything could be all better
without even talking about the argument.
As the role of a listener, I enjoyed the poem. I had to
re-read the poem about three times to finally understand what was going on, but
I chose this poem because of the powerful emotion in it, along with comparing
the poem to real-life relationships. The speaker tricked at least me in this
poem with the ending. I really thought that I was going to find out why the
couple was arguing, but I never did. I also saw this poem as a lesson too
because if you are in a relationship where fighting is a big thing then
something isn’t right…either one of you isn’t happy, or one of you needs to
change. Communication with one another is key in any relationship and this poem
clearly states that. I think that’s what Browning’s main point in writing this
poem was. He wants the reader to understand that this is going to happen in
every relationship, but if it gets to a certain point then what are we willing
to sacrifice? Looks like you have to do it for the love of your relationship.
Sources
Cited:
Browning, Robert. “A
Woman’s Last Word.” Poetry X. Ed. Jough Dempsey. 16 Jun 2003. 29
Oct.
2013.
Miller, Gil. "All About Birds." Red-tailed Hawk,
Identification,. N.p., Fall 2009. Web. 29 Oct.
2013.